赐花

我们的社会也日渐被孩子们的需求，日益膨胀的需求，所主导。这都是拜我们所赐。父母花在孩子身上大把的金钱和精力并没有帮助孩子形成良好的品性，反而把父母们自己的生活也给牺牲了。

Ours is a society increasingly dominated by the needs of children , or rather by the extraordinarily on their children not only doesn 't do much for the characters of their sons and daughters , it diminishes the parents ' lives as well .