劝酒

在西方，过分劝酒是不礼貌的。

It is impolite for one to urge other people to drink in the west .

劝酒指的是强行让别人喝酒的文化。

Quanjiu is the culture of forcing others to drink .

我来到这里似乎碰到的全是劝酒女郎。

I seem to meet nothing But B-girls out here .

但酒桌上却兴起一种劝酒、逼酒、赌酒之风。

However , a climate of urging , forcing or gambling to drink has arose at the feast .

而他则不断劝酒劝菜，昨天星期天还不辞辛劳地带我赶赴一个又一个的约会，乘着小黄东颠西跑了整整一天。

He spent an entire day – a Sunday – guiding me from appointment from appointment , despite the discomforts of riding in Miss Daisy .

同时，有些男性会越过身体上接触的边界，并说出一些粗俗下流的语言，强行劝酒，这让女性也承受了很大的社会压力。

And this also puts too much social pressure on women as many men start crossing the borders in physical contacts , using indelicate language and forced drinking .

不幸的是，很多人发现他们的朋友喝到情绪或行为失控还会一直向朋友劝酒，或者在一旁看着朋友不停地喝酒，而不加劝阻。

Unfortunately too many people observe their friends drinking to the point of being totally out of control while encouraging them to keep drinking or simply standing by passively without intervening .

尽管一些网友认为应该让那些劝酒的围观者负全部责任，但仍有一些网友认为该伴娘也应承担责任，因为作为一名成年人她完全可以选择拒绝喝酒。

While some internet users said those who forced the bridesmaid should take full responsibility as they pushed her , others believed the woman should also be blamed as she was an adult and could have chosen not to drink .